Since Christmas is coming closer it is time to think about what present you are going to give your female counterpart. And although the options are many, why not gift her something you did not just buy, but rather invested personal effort in? Why not gift her the greatest oral job of her entire life - and of course reap what you sow afterward? So here are some techniques for giving the best ever cunnilingus.
Patience & sensitivity pay off
First and foremost, when it comes to granting her some oral pleasure, remember that there is not the one and only way of doing so. Same as our personalities our bodies also vary, and everybody reacts differently to sensations. So if you sense any reaction point to her not feeling comfortable or not really enjoying herself, feel free to adapt and adjust your doing and find out which way she really likes and what makes her reach her climax.
Also, remember that women often feel different about their genitals than men. Whereas men mostly are absolutely fine with getting a blow job, women sometimes might not be in the right mood or might need some more time to get there. When dealing with a female counterpart always make sure to pay attention to her reaction and if necessary, ask her if it is okay for her that you do a certain thing. Cunnilingus is about caressing and kissing her vulva, so the entire area from her labia to her clit - whereas the main trick is to start with slow touches and increase the speed and pressure only when you notice that your partner's excitement increases.
Rest assured that your sensitivity and patience will be met with her feeling more comfortable and therefore being in a much better position to fully give in to your sexual encounter.
Lick it ‘till it’s hot - appreciate different approaches
Easiest for newbies & shy ladies
Especially with women who are not as accustomed to cunnilingus and might feel hesitant about it, begin with her laying on the bed on her back with closed legs. Also, do not directly target her vulva but rather start out by kissing her lips, her neck, her collarbone down to her breasts - and do not forget her tummy. Like this, she has time to get into the vibe, enjoy the first sensations and begin to feel turned on. Only then - and provided she does not oppose - continue by kissing her Venus mound and slowly proceeding to reach her clit with your tongue. The closed legs will initially help her feel safe and give her control over when she wants to spread her legs and relieve more of herself. But do not worry, she will get there.
Give her the full control
Another position I recommend especially for giving her control is to have your lady kneel above her head, maybe leaning against a wall with her back so she has additional support. As for you, all you need to focus on is your tongue and tongue movement. Do not try to follow her when she pulls up or tries to adapt the angle when she shifts - you can be sure she does what she does out of a reason and with a specific purpose. Let her lead her way to her climax and be her assistant. She will definitely appreciate your effort.
Cat in the cradle
A position for cunnilingus women also appreciate is the “cat in a cradle”, as I call it. While she is laying on her back you lay next to her, slightly in a diagonal so your shoulders and a part of your upper body come hovering above her lover's body and hips. Like this, your head will be just between her thighs, right above her vulva, facing downwards. At the same time, this position allows more touch than when you lay in front of her. You can wrap your arm around her lower body and even place your hand above her vagina from behind - who knows, maybe you will want to be close to the entry with your fingers at some point. Since women usually enjoy closer body contact and appreciate being nicely held, this position will definitely satisfy them.
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Fawn
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